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reason at all and that I must listen to and trust my gut.
It doesn’t always mean that something ‘bad’ is happening but it is a prompt requiring me to slow down enough to listen to me, to be self-aware and to pay attention to my surroundings (the situation or person).
It’s one thing if you have a ‘feeling’ about something, you’re not quite sure what it is, but nothing else shows itself over time to support it and you’ve been having the awareness to pay attention but, habitually ignoring important feedback and ignoring your gut about the same people and situations is also ignoring . I had a group of people doing the usual griping about the near ‘awfulness’ of having boundaries which incidentally is like complaining about having self-respect. You can hardly spend thirty years ignoring your gut and then expect that every last decision you make from here till your dying day is going to be “right”. The information from things not working out wrong; it looks wrong now but don’t see that in the future it may very well prove to be right plus the more you trust you, it doesn’t matter about some old decision because you’re enjoying the benefit of subsequent decisions. Whether it’s figuring out what’s going on in a troubling relationship, understanding you and self-care, or being more assertive, I’m here to help you guide you.
Many moons ago I fell very hard for a man who was very wrong for me.
The most common example of this is with relationships – the very things that we turn a blind eye to and override due to feelings we’re enjoying or ‘potential’, are the very things that prove to be an issue further down the line.
I was infatuated with him immediately and the symphony of warning bells was drowned out by an inundation of emotions I had never felt before. I knew I couldn’t trust him and I knew the relationship would end in disaster.
I didn’t want to admit it though, and planted my feet firmly in denial-ville.
Your gut is a powerful tool in life and especially in relationships.
And as women, we have the upper hand and have been given the gift of “women’s intuition.” It’s something we all possess and it can be fine tuned to work optimally.
MORE: How to Have a Healthy Relationship Our unconscious mind has a whole arsenal of information that our conscious mind doesn’t have easy access to.